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Hexagram 41

Give to Gain

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Trigrams:Upper Mountain · stopsLower Lake · delights

Reading it as a decision

Picture a lake tucked beneath a mountain, its water gradually giving itself to feed the higher ground — the mountain grows more solid because the lake let go of some of its own volume. That's the shape of this hexagram: a lower position that deliberately scales back so something above it — a bigger goal, a relationship, a future version of the plan — can gain. The classical text is specific that the gesture doesn't need to be large: even two plain bowls of grain, offered with real sincerity, are enough. What matters is intent, not size.

Read as a decision, this points toward staying where you are rather than moving on. The position itself is sound; what it's asking for is a deliberate reduction — trimming budget, hours, or scope — carried out with follow-through, not abandonment of the plan. Classical line texts here split evenly between favorable and cautionary, which tracks with the core idea: a loss made carelessly costs you twice, but one made with sincerity and clear purpose tends to pay back more than it took.

The classical text

Judgment (卦辭)

損,有孚,元吉,無咎,可貞,利有攸往。曷之用二簋,可用享。

Decrease, offered with sincerity, brings great fortune and no blame — even two simple bowls of grain can serve as a worthy offering.

The six lines (爻辭)

  • 初九:已事遄往,無咎,酌損之。

    Finish the task and hurry off without delay, no blame; trim back only what is fitting.

  • 九二:利貞,征凶,弗損益之。

    Steadiness is favorable, but marching forward brings misfortune; here gain comes without giving anything up.

  • 六三:三人行,則損一人。一人行,則得其友。

    Three traveling together lose one member; one traveling alone instead gains a companion.

  • 六四:損其疾,使遄有喜,無咎。

    Reducing one's affliction and acting quickly brings joy and no blame.

  • 六五:或益之,十朋之龜弗克違,元吉。

    Someone adds to it — a precious tortoise-shell worth ten strings of cowries cannot be refused, great fortune.

  • 上九:弗損,益之,無咎,貞吉,利有攸往。得臣無家。

    Instead of losing, one gains — no blame, steady fortune, good to move forward; he wins followers beyond his own household.

This is a general reference, not a live reading — it doesn't know your situation. iYarrow casts a fresh hexagram for the actual question you're weighing.

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