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Hexagram 38

Working Apart

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Trigrams:Upper Fire · clingsLower Lake · delights

Reading it as a decision

Fire climbing while the lake beneath it settles downward gives this hexagram its shape: two forces that belong in the same picture but are moving apart rather than together. It describes situations where alignment has broken down — a partnership, a negotiation, a relationship where both sides technically want related things but keep reading them differently. The guaci doesn't call this a dead end, just a narrowed one: small, contained matters can still go well even while the larger alignment stays out of reach.

The classical record here sits closer to mixed than clear, and that's the honest read: this isn't a moment with enough signal to commit fully in either direction. The more useful move is to watch rather than force — handle the small, concrete pieces that are still workable, and hold off on the big commitment or the ultimatum that assumes agreement you don't actually have.

The classical text

Judgment (卦辭)

睽,小事吉。

Estrangement divides people apart; only small undertakings can succeed under these conditions.

The six lines (爻辭)

  • 初九:悔亡,喪馬勿逐,自復。見惡人無咎。

    Regret disappears; a stray horse isn't chased and returns on its own — meeting a disagreeable person brings no blame.

  • 九二:遇主于巷,無咎。

    Meeting one's lord by chance in a narrow lane, without blame.

  • 六三:見輿曳,其牛掣,其人天且劓,無初有終。

    A cart dragged back, its ox held fast, its driver branded and mutilated — a rough start ending well.

  • 九四:睽孤,遇元夫,交孚,厲,無咎。

    Alone and estranged, meeting a worthy companion, exchanging trust despite danger — no blame follows.

  • 六五:悔亡,厥宗噬膚,往何咎。

    Regret disappears as kinsmen share a close meal together; moving forward brings no blame.

  • 上九:睽孤,見豕負涂,載鬼一車,先張之弧,后說之弧,匪寇婚媾,往遇雨則吉。

    A mud-caked pig, a cart of phantoms, a bow raised then lowered — not bandits but a suitor; rain brings fortune.

This is a general reference, not a live reading — it doesn't know your situation. iYarrow casts a fresh hexagram for the actual question you're weighing.

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